An expression to love.......
If Love is the most beautiful emotion in this world, Sex undoubtedly
is the most beautiful way to express it. No wonder then if sex is
often referred to as lovemaking. It's a sacred, intimate and blissful
communion between two people. One can transcend the limits of physical
realities to reach the world of pleasure, ecstasy and an insurmountable
bliss.
Are you making love?
One can draw unimaginable bliss out of sex provided the act is an expression to love. Unfortunately that doesn't happen quite often. We often refer our sexual act as making love but most of the time it is an act of suppression, molestation, domination, guilt and fighting complexes. Love making is an act of submission, where you lose your ego to merge into unity with your partner. If you are not able to let go your identity during sexual act you are not making love. Can you remember when did you last made love?
Is sex a sin?
Are you a religious person? Is Sex sin for you?
Why is that the world religions advocating love are against the most natural and beautiful expression of love? The fact is that no religion advocates or teaches anything against sex. It was the followers of the religions who manipulated with the subject for their own convenience and misguiding the common people.
Enjoying sex
Enjoying sex is something which comes to all of us naturally if we know how to follow our instincts. There are many people for whom sex is a two minute affair. Sex is not just about physical contact. Sex is about getting physical to break off all the physical domains. The question arises, how to perfect this art of sexual ecstasy? Following points have the key to sexual gratification.
- Good physical and mental health is an essential towards a gratifying sexual experience.
- Love yourself: Self love is an essential to be a good love maker. You need to know your self worth first to be able to love someone else. Self love means loving yourself as person (with all your negatives and positives included) and to love your body. Sex is about rewarding yourself for the love you have for the self.
- Get free: If you really want to enjoy sex you must first learn to shed your inhibitions and ego. You need to get naked inside to be able to taste this bliss. Try it; this will change your life forever.
- Art of sexual satisfaction: Sex is nothing less than an art. How to seduce your partner, how to kiss, when and how to use various lovemaking positions and so on. You can read books or view movies to guide yourself to be able to enjoy it to the fullest. If you are looking for one point source you can refer to KAMASUTRA the greatest work ever done on the art of lovemaking.
- Be one with each other: Sex is not just about your own enjoyment. Once you have chosen somebody to have relationship with, you must remember that sex has to be an expression of love, deep, intimate and sacred communion between you and your partner. Love making is about honoring and loving yourself, your body, your partner and your partner's body. It is about self-discovery in relationship to your body and your partner. This means that it is very important for you and your partner to continually be aware of each other throughout your sexual interaction. You must communicate to each other your needs and your feelings, and express to each other your enjoyment and pleasure. Whatever the two of you choose to experience is your business, as long as you both are in agreement and are interacting with Love, respect and reverence for your physical bodies and each other.
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