Sexual Fantasies

Almost everybody enjoys sexual fantasies, be it men or women. There is nothing wrong in having them. The sexual behavior of a person echoes the psyche of a person. There is however no need to feel threatened at the thought of one's sexual fantasies for they are perfectly natural and healthy. Sexual fantasies in fact serve as wonderful tool to spice up one's sexual life. They may especially be very useful in treating female sexual apathy, for 75% of the women sexual dysfunctions are psychological. Female libido has lot to do with how a woman feels and what she thinks, vivid sexual fantasies can increase the pleasure of sex-with a partner and alone. Sexual fantasies can be for one's own enjoyment only, or can be shared with the partner. Sex therapists recommend fantasizing as a way to increase desire and arousal. Generally speaking, fantasies function to decrease anxiety about sex and increase sexual intrest and arousal.

What's the difference between male and female fantasies?
Nothing, or not much. They are made up of same stuff. The only thing that differs is that men tend to be more visual and get to the sex acts more quickly. Women's fantasies on the contrary involve more foreplay and more tactile stimulation. More importantly, women's fantasies tend to focus in on the relationship dynamics between characters, while men's are more often about impersonal sexual escapades.

Want to know about some of most popular fantasies entertained by men and women. Here are the top 10 male and female fantasies for you to savour.

Male Sexual Fantasies

1. Favored Location: Sex anywhere except bedroom. Swimming pools, office, garden, supermarkets....you wanna add your something exotic to the list.
2. Bedroom Eyes : peeping through a window/keyhole watching her take on her girlfriend/boyfriend or watching her take bath.
3. Risky Twist: Laying her on her desk knowing someone might come in anytime.
4. King-size Sex : To have the women from places all over serving his majesty.
5. Dress Designer : French maids' outfits/nurses uniforms. The short skirt and suspenders combo is deeply embedded in the male psyche.
6. Double feast : Sandwiched between two women intent on his pleasure.
7. Yes Boss : Grilling his boss's wife.
8. Her Slave : Becoming her slave, getting tortured and molested by her.
9. Mrs. Neighbour: Letting his mature sexy neighbor helping him grow.
10. Lovely Stranger : Being ravished by a total stranger. Planes and trains feature highly in this fantasy.

Female Sexual Fantasies

1. Women on Top: Its about dominating her man; making him beg, telling him to perform striptease, list goes getting fetish from here. Isn't it?
2. Porno Babe: Being watched while having sex with partner or while masturbating is an exciting turn for her.
3. Two to Tango: Like men women also fantasize about having two men all over their bodies.
4. Sexually Ravaged: Having her master guide her into the sexual ecstasy is so lovely.
5. My Lovely Strangers: Lots of women relish the idea of making it out with a total stranger."
6. Naked World: Idea of group sex and being and watching naked people is simply irresistible.
7. Rip me Apart: She'd love to be forcefully done with for she wants the feel of the man.
8. I want the Beauty: She on she is simply beautiful. Idea being softness, tenderness, feelings, emotions. Let him watch while I do so.
9. Dirty Lady: I won't mind being a slut or stripper ..ooh for you my nasty honey.
10. Screw Power: Role reversal is what she'd like the most. Get her a strap-on penis and its his arse's time on.